Sunday, 25 January 2015

Crossdressing He is she "Passable"

Over the pass three years of showing myself dressed as a woman or as a cross-dresser.
I've been through many different stages of perfecting certain areas of this hobby or needy desire or call it what you will.  I've always said that 95% of it is an interest in "Can I do this".
Is it possible for me, a man to transform myself into a fairly convincing female. 
Or as its known in the Cross-dressing world "Passable".  Which is something I don't like or agree with, because you setting a class and goal or a limit onto someone.
Your saying you must be this something "Passable" to be the real deal.
Its slightly ironic to think that in a world where men dress as women and women dress as men and freedom of sexually is by the by that this target would be set by the very people who want this so called freedom of self expression in the first place - DUH...!
The clue is in the name itself "Cross-dress"
Perhaps this might help: cross-dress verb gerund or present participle: cross-dressing wear clothing typical of the opposite sex.
I can't really see anything here that states "And you MUST look actually like a woman".
In all honesty I do struggle with the shallow nature of some people's outlook on others.
For sometime myself I had to feel this pressure when posting videos to YouTube.
If I posted myself as a cross-dresser many people would watch my videos, there was an air of acceptance and being "Passable".
But If I posted a video showing myself as the man and the real me then only a small number of people would watch.
Over the years I've become more use to this fact but still do have mixed feelings about it.
I do understand that the mixed bag of people watching my cross-dressing videos watch for many different reasons, from a cheap frill to somebody looking for help and inspiration.
But saying all of that, it still would be nice to see people taking an interest in the man who is the woman.  There is that faint feeling of the word "Passable" every-time I post a video that is not a cross-dressing video. 
You see what I did there?  I turned the whole thing up-side down.
It would seem as a "Man" I'm just not good enough or "Passable" in the eyes of the viewer.

So on reflection I think we can safely say that being "Passable" is utter bull-shit...!
And is something that has been made up my total tools who enjoy making other peoples lives difficult when wishing to find ones own self and personal happiness.
Please understand that being "Passable" is a real term: A term used to describe a shemale or transsexual who can easily pass as a woman in a public setting.
Again I stress that this pretty much saying if you don't look like a real female don't go outside and don't interact with other humans.

Over the years I've met a huge number of transsexual's & Cross-dressers, lovely normal everyday human beings.
Some do look 100% like a female and some not so much, but I'm not judging them in a "Passable" competition.
I'm just talking and connecting with other people that live on the same planet as me...!

Kathleen Dawson

1 comment:

  1. You are definitely more than 'passable', as yourself and when dressed up.